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My mother cheated on my friend, I don't have a father. Do I get them married? 

A victim's question. 

   Since, you don't have a father, it is not alien. Relating myself to the question, sharing some of my experiences and hoping you get your answer at the end. My best friend's father died when we were in class seven. I used to visit their house often. I used to call my friend's mother as aunty and looked at her with respect, but I still don't. He also loved me a lot. At some point we developed many friendships.

    Even if my friend was not at home, I used to talk to aunty. He was addicted to me and so was I. Later, the friend also sensed the relationship that had developed between us in the presence of the friend.

   Although he did not tell me anything directly, but I understood from his behavior, so I also reduced my visits to their house. Basically, she suspected us of being at their house even though I was not at her house and seeing aunty's bed sheets messy. 

   However, that friend of mine did not get a chance to tell me anything directly, but used to tell various lies in my name to other friends, due to which the relationship with him and some friends deteriorated. We were in class nine then, he joined a school in another city and moved there with his mother. On the day they were going to that city, 

   I didn't say anything to my friend, she just said I'm going, but I was talking to aunty that day too with a smile. Many years have passed, we meet sometimes, we exchange skills naturally, everything has changed a lot with time. You should understand about your mother's needs. 

    You may be friends with your mother but they may not agree if you ask them to marry you. Since you don't have a father, he might feel lonely. And everything can't be shared with a boy, so with your friend. Also after a certain age people like younger people and like to behave like them it is called mid life crisis. And teenagers and young adults also feel attracted to adults at a young age. 

  All this is supposed to be fixed with time. The decision is yours, sure you don't hurt your mother and your friend.

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