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Married for love, now the wife does not listen to you and is disobedient.

You are not afraid, what to do now?

Love married but the wife does not listen? Very unfair. So far it was all right, but it cannot be accepted without fear of you. But think about it before marriage, these disobediences seemed like sweet and sweet obligations. Waited for hours to get an appointment. It didn't matter. How many obstacles have you overcome to get close to the person of your heart? Moreover, without caring about the bloodshot eyes of the elders of the family, he puffed up his chest like a shameless man - "I love him, I will not live without him" etc. etc. Are they history today? Are you not the same person you were today? So why this difference? Why do you feel like disobedience today? Actually the fault is our nature. We become desperate to get something before we don't get it. But after getting it, everything is over. He no longer appreciates.

I will try to answer this question from my personal life experience. It may be slightly different from the original question. So forgive me, reader.

I also have the experience of love marriage. My wife and I are disobedient. Even sometimes Devi Chindi relies on him. And so my life diverged from the main line and began to run on another line.

The first problem after the marriage was that day after chatting with friends, I returned home late at night (around 1 am). The mobile phone was switched off long ago after the charge was over. When I came home, I saw that the table was covered with food. My wife is sitting on the couch burning me with her eyes wide open. It didn't take long to realize that a big storm was coming soon. However, before that, I saw the food arranged on two plates and understood that he had not eaten yet. Calling the dinner table in as sweet a voice as possible, Kalbaisakhi began with thunder. The main complaint will be late to return, why was it not said before? And why switch off my mobile?

A few hours passed like this. By then the thunder stops and the chapter "Nil Maughan Ashad Gagane" begins. Finally I was forced to promise, this will not happen again in my life and as an additional punishment I had to eat the food. As a result, for the past 13 years I have not been found outside the house after nine o'clock at night except for a special reason.

Among my friends the number of Sadhu Markka i.e. gentle boys was insignificant. Most of them were right-wing conservative types. Home rice was not digested by them. So often a picnic type event was organized. Of course, sometimes liquids were also arranged. In the long 13 years after the marriage, despite my wife's vehement objections, I have never liquefied even though I have participated in a few party picnics. There are countless incidents through which I was able to break all my bad habits. And this was possible only because of my disobedient wife.

Of course, because of this, my position in the circle of friends is not at all convenient. They call me 'crazy wife', 'jarul ka Golam', 'wife Bharu' etc. Of course I never had any objection to it and still don't. So instead of replying to their words, I agreed with a sweet smile. In fact, even if you explain to them, you may not understand. Because they don't know - if I'm sick, there's someone who can stay up all night to serve me. They don't know, seeing my little trouble can break someone's tears. They don't know that someone can make phone after phone after phone after hour of not hearing from me. They also don't know that because of my difficulty in eating, one cannot stay in Father's house for more than a day. They don't know that there is someone who has been worshiping me for years by placing me on the seat of the adorable deity in the temple of his heart. They don't even know that even though I am just earning some money, there is someone who is serving my children day and night. Who made my messy world into a golden world by taking the form of Goddess Lakshmi, Goddess Annapurna.

The marriage is fulfilled by the love of husband and wife. A world where there is no mutual cooperation and mutual love between husband and wife is equal to hell. If you want to stay together, there will be defilement. But the sooner it can be settled through mutual understanding the better. It is the duty of both husband and wife to respect each other. Besides, some sacrifices are also necessary. Remember that just as you are earning, your wife has shouldered the huge responsibility of the household. So the ego of earning should be removed from the mind.

Finally, I have done some emotional personal analysis while answering your question. I have tried to explain from my personal point of view. Sorry if there is any mistake.

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